Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Another Dog Day

Ginger: Ahoy, who goes there?
Day 4, and Ginger is settling in slowly. I am getting indignant barks when she doesn't get her way in the morning. It's almost like the same issues I have with the wolfiepup. Dealing with a 3 year old is the same as dealing with a dog. 

Fred has kept control of the dog house, and I'm wondering if some of the barks I heard today (there were less than yesterday) were from her request to move in with him. When I went out to check on them during the day I noticed that she'd just lay on the ground. Ginger's no Comfort Hound. Good ol fashioned hard ground will do just fine, thankyouverymuch. 

 I think I've given up guessing what she's crossed with. I looked up Great Dane today, and really, their face shape (with those jowly cheeks) and triangle ears are not part of Ginger's face structure. Her feet are though. Perhaps she is another greyhound x wolfhound but just more wolfhound than greyhound? No idea..

She certainly has a bit more of the staghound look here:



 We had another walk down the driveway today and she had a few good runs up and down. I watched her run towards me, and was super impressed at her control as she managed to put on the brakes despite running very, very, fast. Her long body helps with that of course. Three bounds, and she's crossed the Atlantic.

Here is Fred trying to give her a run for her money..

It wasn't all running shenanigans though, and Fred spent some time just sniffing around, making sure everything was right in his world.


Fred and Ginger do the Tango, and Ruby joins the fray

Day 3 of Ginger being home, and it's been a busy day. Fred and Ginger are still getting to know each other, and enjoy the chance to do some dancing to see who was going to lead.


Fred: Your footwork's not bad, but could be with a bit polishing up.
Fred: Whoa, easy there...
Fred: um, we're doing the cha cha, not the kangaroo hop...


And then the tables turned..

 

But Fred got tired of the dancing lessons...

Ginger: Whoa, dude. Easy does it....
Ginger: Let's just start out as friends, eh?
 Ginger takes a bit of a breather and goes for a bit of a walk.



But the fun and games aren't over yet, as Ruby comes by for a quick visit and playdate.

Ruby: Hi guys, nice to meet ya!
And all too soon a game of chasies ensues.

Ruby: C'mon slow pokes. Bet you can't get me!



Ginger gets right into it



 But realises quickly that she's not going to be able to keep up

Ginger: Geez that little pocket rocket is fast. Need a break!
 Ruby is quick to commiserate....

Ruby: There, there, there... it's alright. You just keep practising, and you'll be able to catch up to me one day. Maybe.
Fired up by the chase, Fred decides it's time for another dancing lesson, and starts directing everyone.

Fred: Alright people. Now, left, right, left right, that's the way!
But soon his patience comes to an end and he starts demonstrating himself.

Fred: So what you do is lift your pinky toe first...
Fred: And then you go UNDER. That's the secret trick..
Fred: Hey now, don't give up just yet.
Ginger: How's it going back there? Get your lump out of the way Fred, I wanna see..

 But all Ruby wants to do is play hide and seek...

Ruby: And, RAAAAAAAR!!!! I SO GOT YA!!

Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Ginger's a Talker and Barker..

In all the time I had Elsie, I don't think I ever heard her bark.

Ginger in comparison is a bit of a talker.

What do you mean, I'm a bit of a talker?!
Wolfieboy was suggesting perhaps she was crossed with some Great Dane. That perhaps might explain the talking and the big feet. Neighbours suggested perhaps German Shepherd based on her muzzle. Who knows.

Either way, she starts whining when she's hungry or things don't go her way. She's also been barking at the wildlife, and just now started barking at me in protest when I told her to chill out.

She gave Fred a run for his money this morning, and they spent some time playing before coming inside.

Fred and Ginger doing the Tango




 
Fred: I'm going to get you.
Ginger: C'mon old man, give it your best shot!



Fred: ooooofff! Take that missy!
Ginger: Ok, maybe that wasn't so bad.
Ginger: But I reckon I can give as good as you gave. Here I come...
Fred: Whoa dude.... easy, man. Oh wow, Man, what IS that smell?! What did you find on the walk yesterday? I wish I'd spotted it too. Smells just like decayed kangaroo poo! Alright!!
When I let them inside, she was sooo hyper.

She obligingly spent the morning in the house with us posing for some additional photos. And has spent the rest of the afternoon outside. She has roamed the home paddock a few times and I hear barks intermittently through the day. Her bark echoes through the valley. A little disconcerting, and makes me think that perhaps she'll be a better guard dog and in the Summer will keep us awake - as she'll be sleeping outside to protect the grapes, roses and veggie patch.

What?! Sleep outside in Summer?! WHAT?! I never signed up for that!

Monday, March 28, 2016

Ginger joins the pack

 
Five hours it took, one way, to reach Tumburrumba. 3 hours on the way home. It was quite the Expedition. After all that, it seemed a bit ridiculous not to come home with a dog.

We have named her Ginger. It was always wolfieboy's suggestion for Elsie. But I had poo-pooed it, claiming I was too young to have pets referenced to Old Hollywood Style Movies.

But considering how much lobbying I had to make in order to get this dog in the first place, I figured this would be a small concession to make.

Looking through her photos that I've taken today, I am perhaps regretting my generosity a little, and wonder if in fact, Ginger really suits her. Or if perhaps a "Harriet" or some such amazon-esque name would be more appropriate. From certain angles she almost looks a bit like a southern polar bear. All big bones, but light brown and thin/gangly/lanky.

Ginger, the Big Southern Polar Bear..
We picked her up from a rescue group, who originally saved her from Wagga Wagga pound. They named her Cleo (presumably for the black kohl rims around her eyes). For the last few months she's been at the Correctional Facility (aka, gaol), helping inmates in a rehabilitation program. There were in fact two wolfhounds there. Cleo, and an 8 month old pup, who looked VERY wolfie.

I'd been looking on and off for another dog for a while. But Elsie still remained a constant reminder. She still is, even now. And I kept on worrying whether or not I was doing the right thing. Wolfieboy was also digging in his heels on various issues, such as commitment to another dog for another 10+ years. I see his point. But I also like the idea of wolfiepup growing up with a dog from a young age. Fred is already 9. If we're lucky, we'll get another 5 years with him. If not, and we don't get another, then all bets are off as to when we should. Having a young pup limits our options. So in this matter, getting Cleo (now Ginger), was a better compromise as she's already 2. Whereas an 8 month pup - you're starting from the get go, really. That, and he'd most likely annoy Fred a little too much. As Fred is such a submissive dog, it would have been quite hilarious to see him being lorded over by an 8 month old also.

Either way, we scheduled ourselves to see the dogs on Sunday. We left at 11, and turned up a bit past 4pm. Exhausted and a bit stressed that we were so late.

Ginger came straight up to Fred and wolfieboy. No aggression. Just the usual friendly greetings. Then she popped over to us, and gave wolfiepup a lick, straight up, before coming to me and asking for attention.

Her petrescue page said: 

Cleo is a beautiful Wolfhound x (with what we don't know), she is very friendly and loves people. She is a strong dog, social with other dogs. Cleo is big and loves to run but watch out for that wippy tail.

And they weren't kidding. She was friendly and was definitely out to win points on greeting all of us in turn.

She was a lot bigger than I anticipated. I loved seeing her big paws. And her side profile was definitely her best side. From the front, she's just a bit well, funny looking... YMMV



 We were warned about how hard she pulled, but I thought nothing of it, having dealt with Fred in the past. But we were also told that she was a quick learner and was super affectionate.

Considering that she was a girl and seemed to get on with everyone, I decided that we'd just get her rather than meeting the boy. I regret it, perhaps a little bit. But given that it was already close to 4.30, and we still had a 3 1/2 hour drive home, I didn't really want to prolong the inevitable. And really, I was just wasting everyone's time by doing it. I kinda knew deep down I couldn't handle having 3 dogs (not that we could have afforded it anyway), and a boy and a girl seems a lot better than having 2 boys. Even if Fred is a pillow with feet. And 8 months is young. Do I really have the energy/capacity to deal with an 8 month old pup, plus my own wolfiepup, and the ins and outs of everyday life?

The boy's profile said:

Gibbs is a big bouncy puppy. He is extremely social and gets on well with other dogs. He is a big pup but we don't think he will grow to full wolfhound size. This boy is full of personality. 

I was warned by a friend that 'bouncy puppy' was most likely code for 'need lots of training'. The fact that the handlers had also told us that he was smaller than Ginger helped me decide, as I was dying to have a bigger dog (be careful what you wish for...)

We went back into town to get some cash. Wolfiepup, Fred and I went to the park to stretch our legs, and wolfieboy went off to collect Ginger.

Turns out she did a big wet slimy poo the minute he left the facility. Thanks, girl. Great way to ingratiate yourself into our lives, especially with the person who was most against getting you in the first place.

I was handed Ginger, complete with a pooey lead to deal with, while wolfieboy drove off to a convenient block of public toilets to clean out the car. Unfortunately I also had my hands full with Fred and wolfiepup. With strict orders not to touch my hands, wolfiepup was sent packing back to the slippery dip, while I battled a VERY pully Ginger (they weren't kidding about how strong on lead she was) with a pooey collar and lead, and Fred, who responds great now, but is strong at the best of times. By the end of it, I had to resign myself to the fact that my hands were going to smell of dog poo for days.... And that was nothing in comparison to wolfieboy's situation...

What's that fascinating smell?! Oh, that's right, my poo...
Thank goodness they gave us a lead when we took her. It meant we could just dump it, and I put on Elsie's collar and lead. We never knew what to do with Els' collar after she passed. I, for one, certainly couldn't bring myself to throw it away... It is now getting a second life with Ginger. I'll probably get her her own collar eventually, but for now, it will do. It's got my number on it, which is the most important thing. I must admit, it jars a bit to see it on her and not on my Elsie Girl. But things are what they are. And I guess, at least it's getting used and not just sitting out there on the shelf in the yard, collecting wind and rain.

We finally got ourselves sorted and headed home.

About 45 mins away from home, down a dirt back road, Ginger decided she was sick of sitting in the back seat (fair enough, really, considering she'd been cooped in there for close to 2 hours by then, with lots of toilet stops for wolfiepup), and tried to escape by joining wolfiepup in the backseat. BAD idea. Wolfiepup was drifting off to sleep was given quite a rude shock, having a wolfhound bottom shoved in her face. Her screams of terror stopped us in our tracks, and wolfieboy got out to drag Ginger back into the back. If we had been on the main highway, this would have been very dangerous, as Fred had hopped out when we opened the boot, and Ginger does NOT like going in the car. Balked something fierce and needed to be carried back in.

For every misdemeanour that she made that night, my guilt was piling up tenfold. Did I do the right thing? We had to pull cash out from the credit card as the place only took cash, not card. She did the HUGEST mess in the car. Was she in fact toilet trained?! And now this. God forbid if she put wolfiepup off dogs for life...

Luckily wolfiepup took it all in her stride and after Ginger was removed, said to me, "Fred's not silly!" Ah, the resiliance of the young..

I ended up sitting in the back with wolfiepup to ensure another similar incident would not occur. And trust me - she tried. Complete with paw on the back seat, which I promptly shoved back down.

The rest of the drive home was without incident. After wolfiepup was put to bed, and the dogs were fed, Ginger slinked up to me and rolled over in submission. I guess dragging her out and dumping her back in the boot did its job and asserted our dominance over the pack...

Fred coped as he usually does, and crawled under the coffee table after I settled Ginger onto his spare bed. I ended up convincing him to come out for a belly rub and scratch and he spent most of the evening at my feet.

No, I am NOT convinced...
She went to sleep without incident, although this morning I opened the laundry door to discover that she had spent the night sleeping on tile floor with her back against the door, while Fred had the luxury of both dog beds to himself on the other side of the room.

Today was slightly better. We spent the morning chilling out inside. I discovered pretty quickly that she was a smoochbot. All she wants is to lick your face and have belly rubs. If you let her, she'll just climb into your lap. That's over 40 kilos of dog wrapped around you. No, you do NOT own me, and No, I do not exist just to give you belly rubs...

Wolfiepup was initially excited, but after getting cornered by Ginger with licks, decided that she much preferred Fred with his gruff licks every few weeks. Elsie was never that affectionate. Oh, don't get me wrong - she was always up for a belly rub, but was content just to sit by you and listen to you natter away. This one, however, just wants your attention 24/7.

Having said that, after she chills out, she will happily sleep like Fred. So that's good. One of my concerns were that her energy levels would be too high. She hypes herself up, but can calm down relatively well.

We had some visitors come by in the afternoon, and after they left, she collapsed in a heap on her bed and slept again.

The walk in the afternoon was good. Wolfieboy decided to not bother with the lead. She seemed happy to roam but not stray too far.

Scoping out the home paddock
Interestingly, she didn't seem to like the outside that much, and wanted to simply come inside. Fred wouldn't let her in his dog house (wolfieboy cut it in half after Elsie left), which I guess is fair enough. There's not enough room in there girl, and really... we only just met!

She's very food motivated, so we're working on her sit. Apparently tonight was the fastest she's sat down for food.

Right now they're both chilled on their respective beds. I still have some doubts, but at the end of the day I think she'll be alright. You're no Elsie. But that's ok. Because you're not Elsie. You're Ginger.

Welcome to the pack, Ginger. May your time with us be full of fun, laughter and joy. And may it last for a long, long time.


Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Missing Elsie


It's been nearly a year since my girl has gone. We still miss her every day. Wolfiepup asks about her often and includes her in conversation.

When Fred goes to the Vet, she says, "Elsie went to the Doctor. Elsie was very sick." I think in her mind Elsie is still at the doctor and the permanence of death hasn't really seeped in.

We talked about getting another dog. We've been uhhming and ahhing about it for a while. It breaks my heart to hear wolfiepup talk about Elsie. "Fred is family. Mummy and Daddy is family. Elsie is family." Just breaks my heart.

We often take rocks up to Elsie's cairn. And every time I stand there and look at the view, tears start to form and my heart breaks a little more.

I show pictures of Elsie to wolfiepup all the time. She is engraved in our hearts and memories.

We've seen a few dogs, and for one reason or another they aren't making the cut. The last one looked sweet but completely freaked over Fred.

Fred initially struggled but has dealt with Elsie's departure. For a while there he stuck close to us. Wouldn't even leave the verandah at night. It used to be during walks he'd hare off knowing that Elsie was beside us. These days he won't go anywhere without us.

He's finally settled down, and I've seen him happily play with some of my friend's dogs, so I think he'd appreciate the company. I've tried hard to shower him with more affection.

Wolfiepup gives him big cuddles morning and night and he gives her licks and accepts her as part of the pack.

We're going to see another two dogs on the weekend. One is a boy, 8 months old with the wolfie look that I love. The other is a 2 year old girl, who looks a little like Elsie, but without as many wolfie characteristics. Mainly, no wolfie nose bridge tuft. She's wiry but not brindle grey. Instead she's a bit of a blondie. She also has Elsie's whippy tail.

I am half and half about it all. A lot of the push for a second dog is in fact from me. I miss having two dogs. If I am truly honest, I am half hoping that having a second will help fill the hole in my heart - if only a little. But I also know that deep down, no dog is going to replace my Elsie girl. And I'm not sure I want them to either. It would feel wrong to Elsie's memory.

Wolfieboy isn't as keen as me. I understand his reluctance, although his concerns are different to mine. He believes having more dogs will limit us in the future. Whereas I'm thinking, now is the perfect time to help wolfiepup rebond with another dog. But I must admit, I do worry how Fred will cope. And it's nice just to have him on his own again. I worry he'll struggle with sharing us again. He doesn't get half as much attention now as he used to prior to wolfiepup's arrival.

Is it truly time to let go? To move on? Or should I be waiting longer? I don't know. Sunday will come and we shall see.